Romans 14:15-18
How should a Christian whose convictions allow
him to eat everything respond to one with scruples against certain foods? In
Christian love he ought to forgo his liberty in Christ to avoid being a
spiritual hindrance to his spiritual brother. If he persists in
exercising his liberty so that his brother is distressed (lypeitai, “grieved, hurt”), Paul
concluded, then the Christian exercising his liberty is no longer acting
(lit., “walking”) in love. Such persistence could cause the spiritual
destruction of a brother for whom Christ died. I Corinthians 8:11-12
"And through thy knowledge shall the weak brother perish, for whom Christ
died?" "But when ye sin so against the brethren, and wound their weak
conscience, ye sin against Christ."
Paul
tells just how important it is not to lead our weak brothers and sisters
astray.
I
Corinthians 8:13: "Wherefore, if meat make my brother to offend, I will
eat no flesh while the world standeth, lest I make my brother to offend."
This
is some very good advice from Paul. We must not let our liberty in the Lord
cause us to encourage someone else to go against their conscience.
Love
will ensure that the strong Christian is sensitive and understanding of his
brother’s weaknesses.
Destroy renders the word apollye, which often means
eternal ruin. Here it may mean temporal ruin; a Christian forced to act
contrary to his scruples, even though more strict than necessary, may find
himself ruined by his wounded conscience (cf. 1Co_8:10-12).
Persisting in one’s freedom could also result in his Christian liberty (what
you consider good) being blasphemed (spoken of as evil, blasphēmeisthō). The stronger brother
might destroy his testimony. The stronger brother says his liberty comes from
God, but the weaker brother says it comes from Satan. True spirituality is not
shown in the manifestation of liberty, but in the manifestation of the Spirit.
True liberty may be shown by refraining from the exercise of one’s liberty. The
stronger brother might disrupt the peace of the body, so he should fore go his
liberty in the interest of peace in the assembly.
Such
things should not happen. After all, food is not that important an issue (1Co_8:8); it is not the sum and substance
of the kingdom of God. But… righteousness (upright living), peace
(cf. Rom_12:16, Rom_12:18; Rom_14:19)
and joy in (the sphere of) the Holy Spirit (cf. Rom_15:13) are essentials of Christian
fellowship and harmony. I
Corinthians 8:8 "But meat commendeth us not to God: for neither, if we
eat, are we the better; neither, if we eat not, are we the worse."
Galatians
5:22 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering,
gentleness, goodness, faith,"
What
all three of these Scriptures are saying is that the abundance of the things
God has entrusted to us do not make us right with Him. The blessings that really count are the gifts
of the Spirit that He entrusts us with.
“Joy
in the Holy Ghost”: Another part of the Spirit’s fruit, this describes an
abiding attitude of praise and thanksgiving regardless of circumstances, which
flows from one’s confidence in God’s sovereignty.
A
concerned believer insists on right conduct, harmony, and joy rather than
forcing his own lifestyle on others. As a result the Christian who serves
(pres. participle, douleuōn, “who keeps on serving as
a slave”) Christ in this way — in Christian love, pursuing
righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit — is pleasing (cf. Rom_12:1; Rom_15:1;
Heb_13:21) to God and approved by
men (in contrast with being evil spoken of, Rom_14:16).
James 2:18
"Yea, a man may say, Thou hast faith, and I have works: shew me thy faith
without thy works, and I will shew thee my faith by my works." James 2:19
"Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils also
believe, and tremble." James 2:20 "But wilt thou know, O vain man,
that faith without works is dead?"
God
expects us to use the gifts of the Spirit that He gives us. The power of the
Holy Spirit is given for a reason. The reason is to make us more effective
workers for God. It explains it perfectly in Acts 1:8
"But
ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon you: and ye
shall be witnesses unto me both in Jerusalem, and in all Judaea, and in
Samaria, and unto the uttermost part of the earth."
“Approved
of men”: Christians are under the microscope of a skeptical world that is
assessing how they live with and treat each other.
Romans 14:19-21
Continuing his emphasis on not hindering another
Christian’s spiritual life, Paul urged his readers, Let us therefore make every
effort (lit., “Let us keep on pursuing”) to do what leads to peace
(lit., “the things of peace”; cf. Rom_14:17)
and to mutual edification (lit., “and the things of building up one
another”; cf. Rom_15:2; 1Th_5:11). Edify means confirming or building. In other
words, instead of tearing someone down, build them up.
To Paul food and one’s personal
convictions about it were not so important as the spiritual health of a fellow
Christian and the work of God. Therefore it is wrong to insist on
one’s personal freedom in Christ concerning food (all food is clean; cf.
Rom_14:14, “no food is unclean”) and
drink if it causes someone else to stumble (proskommatos, “a stumbling block”; cf.
Rom_14:13, Rom_14:21). We touched on this
earlier, but will just say again, here, that if the man thinks it is sin to eat
whatever this is, then it is sin for him. He would be sinning against his
conscience.
“that
man who eateth with offence”, is speaking of the man who eats and gives
offense. He is the one who uses his god given liberties carelessly and
selfishly, offending his weaker brother.
Meat
or drink
or anything else should be put aside if it causes a brother to fall
(proskoptei, “stumble”; cf. proskomma, in Rom_14:13, Rom_14:20).
At times one’s Christian liberty must be relinquished for the sake of others. We see here, again,
that whatever it takes to set a good example before our weaker brothers and
sisters in Christ is what we should do. If they think it is sin to eat something,
then in their presence we should not eat it either; just because they would
feel we were sinning and if they end up eating, we are causing them to sin.
As
Paul wrote to the Corinthians, “Everything is permissible — but not everything
is constructive” (1Co_10:23). And “be
careful… that the exercise of your freedom does not become a stumbling block to
the weak” (1Co_8:9).
Romans 14:22-23
Concerning personal convictions in areas where
different views exist, Paul concluded, So whatever you believe about these
things (lit., “The faith that you have,” or “Do you have faith?”) keep
between yourself and God. A Christian must not insist on influencing a
believer with tighter scruples to change his ways. Paul urges the strong
believer to understand his liberty, enjoy it, and keep it between God and
himself. The strong believer maintains a healthy conscience because he does not
give a weak believer a cause to stumble.
It should be something “in his own mind” (Rom_14:5), for he lives “to the Lord” (Rom_14:8). Paul considered a Christian like
himself who had a clear conscience on such matters blessed (lit.,
“happy”). On the other hand, a Christian who has doubts is condemned
(perf. pass. verb, “stands condemned”) if he eats. If a Christian eats
food or does anything when he has doubts in his own mind as to whether it is
right or wrong before God (one who is “weak” in faith, Rom_14:1-2), his action does not spring from
(ek, “out of”) his faith
or trust in God and is therefore wrong. As Paul generalized, Everything that
does not come from (ek, “out of”) faith is sin. This has to do with more than just food.
Everything we do must be done through faith.
Without
faith, it is impossible to please God. Abraham's faith was counted unto him as
righteousness. This is true for us, as well.
Hebrews
11:6 "But without faith [it is] impossible to please [him]: for he that
cometh to God must believe that he is, and [that] he is a rewarder of them that
diligently seek him."
The
strongest Christian can bring harm to himself in the area of Christian liberty
by denouncing or belittling the freedom God has given him, or by carelessly
flaunting his liberty without regard for how that might affect others.
When
the weak brother violates his conscience, he sins as “whatsoever is not of faith”,
meaning the thoughts and actions that his conscience condemns. (which may be
perfectly acceptable by God in others)
The
principle is, “When in doubt, don’t.” The “strong” Christian (Rom_15:1) is wrong if he causes a weak brother
to sin (by doing something while doubting, Rom_14:20),
and a weak brother (Rom_14:1-2) who
goes against what he doubts also sins (Rom_14:23).